My Story. My Journey. Your growth.

"Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do." - Brené Brown

About Me

My name is Maria Margarita (Mary Margaret in English) but my friends and family call me “Maggie". I’m Cuban-American, so I’m loud, I’m proud, and most importantly I’m authentically and unapologetically myself.

Chances are if you chanced upon my site you are looking for someone just like me. Someone who can guide you through life’s turbulent moments in the throes of a divorce. Someone who can keep you grounded while telling it like it is. Someone who will listen to you, yet give you your space when you need it. Someone who gets what it’s like to be a single mom, together with all the emotional and financial stressors that come with it. And someone who’ll give you the information and advice you need (even though you may not yet know you need it). I also hope that we can laugh together, because one day you’ll look back at this moment and realize you are exactly where you dreamt you’d be all those many months ago. Today is yesterday’s tomorrow. Promise!

Like a caterpillar goes through a metamorphosis to become a butterfly, and a Phoenix rises from the ashes, so did I, and so WILL you. I’m here to share my SISU with you.

I’m here to empower women to live their best lives, the lives they were meant to live, and may not even know they can live (maybe because they never have). My mantra is: The best is yet to come! I have the skills, knowledge, experience and resources to get you through these difficult times. This is my mitzvah, because if I can help just one woman out there reading this and give her hope, then I’m grateful in knowing I’ve accomplished what I set out to do.

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My Journey

A little bit about how I got here. In college I majored in pre-law and political science, before switching to Psychology. I decided to follow the law, and after 20 years in the legal field doing estate planning and probate, I was presented with an opportunity I could not pass up. I was offered a job in banking, and transitioned into a totally different field working as a corporate fiduciary, where I climbed up the corporate ladder and became a Vice President of a global trust company in a short period of time. I was completely outside of my comfort zone, and possessed a “deer in the headlights look” for nearly a year. Not kidding! But I proved I could reinvent myself. My life seemed perfect, right? So wrong!

Somewhere in the middle of my professional life, I married a lawyer, and even took some time off to be a stay at home mom. Still a seemingly picture-perfect life, right? Until BAM! – divorce hit me like a rogue wave on a calm summer cruise. Blindsided doesn't even begin to describe it.

Truth be told, I did not choose to get divorced at 51 and with a minor child, but I didn’t have much of a choice. And during the process, I realized that it was far better for me to be alone than in an abusive and toxic relationship. As my mother (who is no longer with us) used to say to me: “Mejor sola, que mal acompanada” (Tr: It’s better to be alone than in bad company!). No kidding!

After my tumultuous divorce, still battered and broken, I set out to figure out what the hell happened, what went wrong. Was it something I did? How did things just “fall apart”? When? But listen up, because that's when the real magic happened. My epiphany! Instead of drowning in the drama, I did what I do best – I reinvented myself. Fueled by "Sisu," a Finnish term loosely translated as a spirit of never giving up, going beyond one’s mental or physical capacity. I embarked on a soul-searching odyssey. Self-help books became my bible, seminars my therapy sessions, and introspection my superpower. I wasn't just healing; I was discovering the badass Rubia I always had within. You name it I did it or studied it, and spent a small fortune while doing it. But something amazing came of this, I re-discovered my faith and in doing so is when I discovered “my me, my why, and my purpose”.

I realized that my journey wasn't meant to be a solo act. As I emerged stronger, I felt a calling to uplift others facing similar storms. I began to mentor women who were going through the same experience as me. That led me to my going on to obtain my certification as a relationship and lifestyle coach. I proved, yet again, that you’re never too old to reinvent yourself. But don’t take my word for it, feel free to read testimonials from other fabulous ladies I’ve mentored in the past few years. And let me tell you, witnessing their transformations lit a fire in my soul.

My blog is the Badass Rubia blog, because I believe there is a little “badass” within all of us.

Here’s how I can support you…

Life throws curveballs, but you don't have to face them alone. I don't offer just one type of support, but a holistic approach that addresses your emotional, financial, legal, and personal needs. Whether you're seeking dating tips, financial and legal guidance, or simply a dose of inspiration, I'm here to walk alongside you on your path to healing and empowerment.

My mission is to help women like you…

Navigate the choppy waters of divorce: From emotional support to practical advice on co-parenting and finances, I'll guide you through the process with compassion and clarity.
Find your strength and reclaim your confidence: Whether you're facing heartbreak, self-doubt, or simply a lack of direction, I'll help you rediscover your inner power and purpose.
Spark your passion and ignite your joy: From reigniting forgotten hobbies to exploring new adventures, I'll inspire you to live a life that lights you up.
Build a supportive sisterhood: Join a community of like-minded women who understand your struggles and celebrate your victories. Share experiences, offer advice, and learn from each other's journeys.

Emotional Support:

Healing from divorce or heartbreak: Feeling the sting of betrayal or navigating the complexities of co-parenting? I'll provide a safe space to process your emotions, gain clarity, and find strength to move forward.
Building confidence and self-esteem: Struggling with self-doubt or feeling unworthy? I'll help you rediscover your inner fire, embrace your flaws, and cultivate a healthy sense of self-worth.
Managing stress and anxiety: Feeling overwhelmed by life's demands? I'll equip you with stress-management techniques and coping mechanisms to find peace and inner balance.

Practical Guidance:

Dating and relationships: Ready to get back out there but unsure where to start? I'll offer dating advice, help you create a compelling profile, and navigate the world of online dating with confidence.
Finances and budgeting: Facing financial challenges after divorce? I'll provide insights on budgeting, financial planning, and navigating legal aspects like child support or alimony.
Legal matters: Need guidance on legal issues related to divorce or family law? I'll direct you to the right resources and offer support as you navigate the legal system.

Inspiration & More:

Career and life purpose: Feeling lost or unfulfilled? I'll help you discover your passions, explore new possibilities, and set goals to achieve your dreams.
Self-care and healthy living: Want to prioritize your well-being? I'll guide you towards healthy habits, stress-reducing practices, and self-care rituals to nurture your mind, body, and soul.
Community and connection: Craving a supportive network of women who understand? Join our vibrant community of Badass Rubias, share experiences, and find encouragement and inspiration.

Testmonials

"Maggie was there for me when I needed an ear and a shoulder to cry on."

My friend Maggie was such a light when I joined the Divorce Care group. We clicked right away. I vividly remember her cheery disposition. Maggie almost instantaneously invited me to go out with her other BFF.
We started relying on each other for advice, pep talks, laughter and, getting over the hurdle of after 20+ years of being married, having to tread through a new adventure that we were both fairly new at. During those difficult times, Maggie was there for me when I needed an ear and a shoulder to cry on. What I appreciated the most, was Maggie never judged me. What I love the most about her, is even now 7 years later, when we have both healed, if I need Maggie, I have no doubt she will be there for me.
MD, Miami
"...she provided support, love, and pushed me in a way that I didn’t feel alone or as sad during this difficulty journey."

In Feb 2017, I was blessed to meet Maggie Guerra during a very difficult time while going through a divorce. She was the first person I met at the divorce care support group where we gathered every Tuesday. She made me feel welcomed since day one. I remember we exchanged phone numbers. Maggie stated “everything is going to be ok!” From that day forward she provided the support, love, and pushed me in a way that I didn’t feel alone or as sad during this difficulty journey. We shared days filled with tears, laughs, dining, coffee shops to chat, dancing, and always assured everyone in our group had a place to share during the holidays. Maggie will always have a special place in my heart. It’s a sisterhood. Thus, our sisterhood is so strong that we can meet today and pick up right where we left off.
ML, Miami
"Thank you for being the voice of many women suffering in silence."

I would first and foremost congratulate Maggie for launching her website and the new upcoming book. I first met Maggie through a Divorce Care group in Miami. I’ve known her for almost 6 years. She is now a friend and a sister. She’s a great human with a great soul. She is also the life of the party. She’s also great at party planning and getting people together. Maggie, I thank you for the initiative to launch this site and publish the book. It will impact many women and help them navigate through the many challenges that come with divorce. Thank you for being the voice of many women suffering in silence.
SC, Miami
"Maggie has always been there for us offering her wealth of knowledge and tidbits of wisdom."

Never a dull moment with Maggie. So many wonderful memories we have shared throughout the years. Maggie has always been there for us offering her wealth of knowledge and tidbits of wisdom, or just supporting us through our hard times.
AMC, Broward
"Maggie was a voice of reason for me."

During and after my divorce, I was a total mess. Maggie was a voice of reason for me and became a true confidant!
TF, Kendall
"...what I saw was someone so joyous and full of life and positive, and it gave me hope, hope to one day feel like that again. "

I don’t know if people that haven’t gone through a divorce can understand the emotional toll that it can put any human being through. During my journey, I learned that it was very important to surround myself with people that could understand me and what I was going through; and none better than those going through similar experiences.
That’s where Maggie comes into this picture. When I met her, she was a bit ahead of me in her process, but still vividly feeling the impact of her divorce on her life. And yet what I saw was someone so joyous and full of life and positive, and it gave me hope, hope to one day feel like that again.
Maggie is special in so many ways! Like all of us, I’m sure she had days in which she could have easily stayed hiding under her bed sheets, but you would have never been able to tell. Instead, she’d put her game face on and go enjoy life and spread the joy!
I’m beyond thankful for her friendship and for the strong bond that we created through our not so good times. Her positive, understanding, compassionate and loving attitude were there for me when I needed it the most…thank you, Maggie, for being there, and for sharing your wonderful self with the world! Never stop!
MR, Miami