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“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it." - Nelson Mandela
Women Wear Many Hats
Hey there, amazing readers! Today, let's shine a spotlight on something all too familiar to many of us: the many roles women effortlessly juggle. From nurturing moms to savvy financial wizards, and everything in between, women wear numerous hats every day with grace, resilience, and a touch of that indomitable spirit that defines us.
Sixty and Soaring: Why This Year for me is a HUGE Milestone (And a Pretty Badass One at That!)
Society loves to throw around phrases like "over the hill" or "past your prime," but here's the truth bomb: those are outdated myths we can happily toss in the trash bin. Because honey, if 50 is the new 30, then 60 is most definitely the new 40 – and it's about time we started celebrating that!
Fuego y Flores: The Fierce and Feminine Spirit of Cuban Women
Let's talk about the magic that is Cuban women – we're the firecrackers of the Latin world, a dazzling blend of strength, warmth, and pure sunshine. We light up a room like a Havana night, leaving a trail of laughter, love, and maybe a little salsa dancing in our wake. But beneath that radiant exterior lies a powerful spirit, forged by tradition, resilience, and a whole lot of amor (love).
What is Self-Confidence and How Do You Gain It? 8 Tips That Will Help You
Confidence isn't just about feeling good (although that's a pretty awesome perk), it's about believing in yourself and your abilities. It's the key to unlocking a life filled with success, happiness, and epic amounts of self-love. So, ditch the self-doubt and grab a metaphorical hammer, because we're about to smash that confidence monster into a million tiny pieces!
Love After Likes: Online Dating Tips for Grown-Ups Who Still Got It
Dating at any age can be a rollercoaster, but honey, it can also be a whole lot of fun – especially if you approach it with the right attitude. So, ditch the cynicism and dust off your dancing shoes, because we're about to find your happily ever after (or at least a killer first date!).
Love Lessons: The Good, the Bad, and the Baggage (Without the U-Haul)
Let's talk about relationships – the beautiful, messy, and sometimes downright baffling things that add a whole lot of spice (and sometimes tears) to life. As we get older, these relationships require even more work, TLC, and maybe a good bottle of wine after a particularly challenging conversation.
Ditch the Bar Scene: 8 Unexpected Places to Meet Your Match (and Maybe Even Mr./Ms. Right!)
Love is out there, and it might be hiding in the most unexpected places. So, ditch the tired routine of bars and clubs, and get ready to explore your adventurous side!
The Unraveling: Why People Cheat, But It Doesn't Have to Be Your Story
Putting it candidly: infidelity sucks. It's a betrayal that leaves us feeling hurt, confused, and maybe a little lost. But unlike that pesky stain on your favorite white shirt, there's no one-size-fits-all stain remover for a cheating heart. The reasons people stray are as tangled as they are complicated, so let's untangle some of them and see what makes them tick.
The Cozy Corner of Community: Where You Belong
Let's be real, ladies. Divorce can leave you feeling a bit adrift. Suddenly, your social circle might feel smaller, your routines disrupted, and that familiar sense of belonging can take a nosedive. But here's the good news: YOU’RE NOT ALONE!
Hitting the Pause Button: Why Rushing Into a New Relationship After Divorce Might Not Be the Best Idea
Let's face it, divorce is a doozy. It's an emotional rollercoaster that can leave you feeling lost, hurt, and maybe a little wobbly. Jumping straight from that ride into a brand new relationship might seem tempting – a distraction from the emotional hangover, a chance to feel whole again. But hold on a sec, ladies! Before you swipe right on “Mr. Right Now”, let's talk about the importance of hitting pause and prioritizing some "me time" after a divorce.
Six Things You Should Invest In Prior to the First Date
Six things you should invest in prior to the first date. So you’re finally ready to get back out there, and maybe even go on your first date post-divorce. Congrats!
Age Is Just a Number
Age is just a number! We’ve heard this a bazillion times, and read it countless others. So many quotes, but who’s counting? More importantly, what does it really mean?
Some of My Favorite Inspirational Quotes
"Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do." - Brené Brown
Mentor vs. Coach vs. Therapist
The key to healing from the trauma of a divorce is to get to a better place emotionally - for yourself and your children and family. If that involves seeking outside help, know you have options, and decide which is best for you.
Setting Boundaries as a Form of Self Care
A boundary is about your own actions, not someone else’s. Boundaries are a tool not a weapon. It’s not selfish, it’s a form of self-care.
Five Important Things to do Post Divorce
So now you’re divorced. You survived the dark days and nights of a divorce. Maybe barely- but you did it. Yay you! So now it’s time to make sure you and your loved ones, especially your kids and/or beneficiaries are protected going forward.
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